The Blame Game

This is one of the most important aspects of the healing journey I have been on although I have not been able to write about it so eloquently. I am so happy to share this with my readers.

Pointless Overthinking

“Blame doesn’t empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don’t want to be because you don’t want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your own life’s happiness.”

Shannon L. Alder

Let’s be honest…we have all played the Blame Game. It is easy to do when something doesn’t go the way we want it to. If someone is at fault then there is a way to make sure it doesn’t happen again. And sometimes we need that sense of control to make us feel a little safer.

There are two sides to the blame game: we become hyper self-accountable and pile all the blame on ourselves or we blame everyone else for our problems.

If you have been following my blog posts you will know that I am a strong proponent of self inquiry. There is a very important…

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